Are you keeping score with yourself and others? Continually reminding your loved ones or yourself of mistakes or past decisions? Are you reminding yourself of all things you’ve thought or said? Do you have a mindful of regrets?
Love is about growth. Growth cannot happen when we are continually looking backwards. We need to focus on how we are winning. Focus on what we are grateful for.
Love can flourish when celebrated. It struggles when it is strangled with doubt and negativity.
Lift yourself and your loved ones up with gratitude. What are you grateful for with yourself and your loved ones.
Steer clear of dwelling in the negativity if you want love to grow. Destroy the scoreboard. Its only used for games and love is not a game.
Love never fails.